Valentine’s Day has always been a bit odd for me. When you’re single, it’s almost an inescapable reminder that well, you’re single, and two, you’re single. Perhaps it’s just me, but the heart shaped chocolates and the ultimate question of “What are you doing for Valentines Day” makes it seem a bit awkward that you are single – even though that isn’t the case any other day!

And then when you’re in a relationship, there are often expectations and and an uncomfortable sense of pressure around the occasion. Well, I’ve decided this year, that Valentine’s day really should be a day like all others – a day of love, appreciation and affection. You don’t need to be in a romantic relationship to celebrate your friends, your family and even strangers – who are all sources of love that surround you.

To be happy on this commercialized holiday, I find there are a few key ingredients for a fool proof happy February 14th.

1. Have low expectations

2. Tell at least 5 people in your life that you love them

3. Just be….with love. Be it, act it, think it, embrace it and be open to it

Happy love day everyone. May your year be filled with affection, quality time, appreciation and love.