Comments on: Pursuit of Pretty http://amyfabulous.com/pursuit-of-pretty/ Creative Junkie. Word Wizard. VP of Fun. Welcome to my world, my life, my story... Fri, 03 Feb 2012 08:31:59 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1 By: Arcane http://amyfabulous.com/pursuit-of-pretty/comment-page-1/#comment-220 Arcane Sun, 29 Nov 2009 20:47:51 +0000 http://amyfabulous.com/?p=756#comment-220 Amy, what a beautifully written piece. Please don't ever go for it though, i think i understand the struggle but as you said its an ongoing lifetime thing and i truly believe that you are more beautiful now than you ever will be, and that will never change. Once you've altered your natural look nothing from that moment can truly be real anymore, you'll be looking at another version of yourself. One that wasn't happy with the previous one. Sorry to sound preachy but surely that won't be good for the soul? I really hope you decide to stick with your true & inner beauty. Besides, are the "men" from which you seek this attention ever really worthy of it? If you met him right now, would he want you to change a single thing about yourself? If they are real and know what love is then my opinion is most definitely not.... If yes, then you should get the hell out immediately. I honestly believe that True Love is a combination of elements that are ingrained within all of us and will only be found by people in the same category. CHIVALRY IS NOT DEAD.... Not just yet anyway. I highly recommend this film to anyone thinking about changing their appearance in any way.... http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0497986/ Amy, what a beautifully written piece.

Please don’t ever go for it though, i think i understand the struggle but as you said its an ongoing lifetime thing and i truly believe that you are more beautiful now than you ever will be, and that will never change.

Once you’ve altered your natural look nothing from that moment can truly be real anymore, you’ll be looking at another version of yourself. One that wasn’t happy with the previous one. Sorry to sound preachy but surely that won’t be good for the soul?

I really hope you decide to stick with your true & inner beauty.

Besides, are the “men” from which you seek this attention ever really worthy of it? If you met him right now, would he want you to change a single thing about yourself? If they are real and know what love is then my opinion is most definitely not…. If yes, then you should get the hell out immediately.

I honestly believe that True Love is a combination of elements that are ingrained within all of us and will only be found by people in the same category.

CHIVALRY IS NOT DEAD…. Not just yet anyway.

I highly recommend this film to anyone thinking about changing their appearance in any way….

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0497986/

]]> By: nicole http://amyfabulous.com/pursuit-of-pretty/comment-page-1/#comment-111 nicole Wed, 25 Nov 2009 00:20:24 +0000 http://amyfabulous.com/?p=756#comment-111 well written. well written.

]]> By: lolawest http://amyfabulous.com/pursuit-of-pretty/comment-page-1/#comment-104 lolawest Fri, 06 Nov 2009 01:49:58 +0000 http://amyfabulous.com/?p=756#comment-104 You know, I used to envy girls like you. Thanks for writing this article - I now know that it wasn't easy for you neither. Me, I was a total disaster at using my looks to get attention. Being forced to use my brain to get attention meant that I could con favours from grown-ups but I had no friends my age (and no male attention, obviously). The strangest thing is, I'm 30 now and I feel like I'm playing catch-up. To a certain degree I've bought into that concept of pretty = men will like/love you and some days it eats away at me. Maybe I'll grow out of it in time. You know, I used to envy girls like you. Thanks for writing this article – I now know that it wasn’t easy for you neither. Me, I was a total disaster at using my looks to get attention. Being forced to use my brain to get attention meant that I could con favours from grown-ups but I had no friends my age (and no male attention, obviously). The strangest thing is, I’m 30 now and I feel like I’m playing catch-up. To a certain degree I’ve bought into that concept of pretty = men will like/love you and some days it eats away at me. Maybe I’ll grow out of it in time.

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